The devastation of a cancer diagnosis knows no bounds, a crippling reminder of your own mortality in pursuit of answers which we yearn to hear and might later regret.
As patients, we may find ourselves in an alternate reality disguised to those outside of the cancer club in which we host members from all walks of life; divided into 2 categories: patients and allies. These allies support the diverse needs of a fight club whose tenacity is unparalleled in the face of what seems to be insurmountable odds. These allies can illuminate a diagnoses as they push past modern day limits fuelled by compassion and the art of the possible, crafting experiences that are progressively less dim than the last. One of my steadfast allies has been Dr. Loach.
During my journey, Dr. Loach has been a resounding ray of light whose bedside manner should be awarded, emulated and admired. Having seen a multitude of doctors over the years, it has always been apparent to me that Dr. Loach emitted a genuine caring and compassionate quality that I, as a patient, could take comfort in. A Bone Marrow Transplant can feel like a highly redundant, anxiety charged daze- waiting to see which side effects will afflict you. With that said, I would look forward to his daily assessment and delivery of the current state. I never felt as if he was time constrained though I’m sure he was spread thin and beyond all else trusted that his decisions always had my best interests at heart.
In an environment devoid of entertainment, Dr. Loach honed his voice and musical prowess for the benefit of all that would listen. A true testament to his thoughtful character could even be seen in his clothing, a combination of eclectic and sometimes quirky outfits to put a smile on your face – BMTs unicorn. It is without a doubt that his retirement will be felt by his team members but I can only hope that his many years of service were imprinted on the culture of BMT, remembering that the compassionate and caring aspect of the process is just as important as the practical.
I wish you all the very best in whichever direction life takes you and am forever grateful for your impact on my cancer journey.
Your friend,
Adam
The Hopeful Motif 